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VINTAGE & VINES EVENT BRINGS HOPE TO CHILDREN COPING WITH LOSS IN SOUTHERN NEVADA

Las Vegas (February 14th, 2020) –  The 11th annual Vintage & Vines, slated for April 22nd from 5:30-8:00PM at Red Rock Country Club, will feature a roaring 20’s theme bash & fundraiser with an added NFL tailgate twist! This event will raise much needed funds to sustain and scale up our programs and services aimed at helping children and their families, across Southern Nevada, cope with loss.

Among some of our amazing event partners this year are Jaguar Land Rover Las Vegas, Sierra Air Conditioning & Heating , Mark and Anne Wayman, and Windermere Prestige Properties. Guests attending Vintage & Vines will enjoy an amazing night of live dancing to the music of Naomi Mauro Band, while sipping fine wine and craft beers. They will also get to enjoy delicious cuisine and exciting entertainment, including a football theme tailgate party on the patio to coincide with the NFL draft happening that week on the Las Vegas Strip!  The evening will include a 1920’s attire costume contest and guests will get a chance to bid on fabulous items and experiences during our silent and live auctions. Our mistress of the ceremonies will be local media personality & Emmy Award winning broadcaster, Patranya Bhoolsuwan.

“Vintage and Vines is our only annual fundraiser in its 11th year. With the help of local businesses we will have new experiences this year to add to our food, wine and beer tastes fun!” said Adam’s Place founder, Kelly Thomas-Boyers  “They include contests for best costumes (male/female/couple!), psychic, fortune teller, patio tailgate etc. Our event will be memorable and something you won’t want to miss!”

Adams Place relies on community support to fund ongoing programs and new projects like “MUSIC U”, a collaboration with local musical mentors to give children a chance to expand their coping skills in a healthy way.  Our other services include Junior Camp Cope, Adult Parenting Skills Programs, In-School Camp Cope Programs, Quarterly Healthy Coping Workshops, Quarterly Family Connections Events, Spring Well Corporate Employee training and On-Site Support Group Facilitation, along with Motivational Guest Speaker Engagements.

Adam’s Place has been providing services in Southern Nevada for 11 years. We appreciate all the local support that makes our program and growth possible.

Vintage & Vines 2020 event sponsors include: UnitedHealthcare, Chef Rick Giffen (Food & Beverage Director with OYO Hotel & Casino), Red Rock Country Club, Born and Raised Bar, and Tony Goitia.

Tickets are $75 until February 15th, then they go up to $100. The event will be at Red Rock Country Club located at 2250 Red Springs Drive, Las Vegas NV 89135. 

ABOUT ADAM’S PLACE

Adam’s Place, a local non-profit, was founded in 2009 to fill a gap in community services for children, teens, and families coping with loss. Adam’s Place has provided services for over two thousands local children since its inception. Our programs include: Junior Camp Cope, Adult Parenting Skills Programs, In-School Camp Cope Programs, Music U Mentors, Quarterly Healthy Coping Workshops, Quarterly Family Connections Events, Spring Well Corporate Corporate Training, Guest Speakers and On-Site Support Group Facilitation and Training.


Adam’s Place Camp Cope

Adam's Place Camp Cope Program

Our 8-week Program, Camp Cope, is offered two times a year: Fall Camp and Winter Camp. The bonds created with peers, coping skills acquired, and confidence gained, help our children to increase school attendance, school performance, gain a sense of security, build confidence, and most importantly restore hope.

Take a peak at some of the highlights from our latest session "Building Your Toolbox".

Children dealing with loss are vastly overlooked in society at large and in schools in particular. Our Camp Cope Programs have the largest group of children to date and we are at maximum capacity. Our services are in high demand and in order to continue providing support for children and families experiencing loss, we need help from our community.

Our 2020 goal is to not only expand our Adam's Place Training Facility but to partner with our community schools to bring Camp Cope into their facilities. We have successfully lead Camp Cope at LIED Stem Academy and are currently running the program at Rancho High School.
These losses are powerful and often overwhelming, leaving children with intense feelings of pain, anger, fear, and guilt. Left unresolved, these emotions can inhibit a child's natural growth and can push them down a path of bad choices.

Studies show that grieving children can have:

• Increased depression and anxiety throughout childhood and adulthood
• Decreased academic performance
• Increased probability of delinquency
• Increased probability of drug use
• Increased probability of early sexual activity and teen pregnancy
• Increased probability of gang involvement

With the help of our community, we would be able to grow the capacity of our current programs, expand our outreach, and advance research beyond our landmark studies currently underway. In short, we help kids heal, creating a stronger community.

Visit https://adamsplacelv.org/support-us/ to learn how you can help us build strong hearts in our community!


Adam’s Place Teddy Bear and Camp Cope Scholarship Drive

November is Children’s National Grief Awareness Month. Be a Superhero for a child experiencing loss! Our Teddy Bear and Camp Cope Scholarship Drive runs the entire month of November. Drop off a teddy bear or unwrapped gift (children 5-18) at one of the locations though out the valley (locations listed below).

Small new teddy bears are included in our Camp Cope coping skills backpacks for children participating in the program. Gifts will be given to our Fall Camp Cope kids at our annual Christmas party.

Sponsor a child today! Donate to our Camp Cope Scholarship:
www.adamsplacelv.org/support-us/donate

Teddy bear donation drop off locations:

Adam’s Place
840 S Rancho Dr 625-4 Las Vegas, Nevada 89106

Sierra LLC Conditioning & Heating
4210 W. Patrick Lane, Las Vegas, NV 89118

Jaguar Land Rover Las Vegas
6425 Roy Horn Way, Las Vegas, NV 89118

Advertising & Marketing Solutions, Inc.
9670 W. Tropicana Ave., Ste 125, Las Vegas, NV 89147

Lotus Broadcasting Corp
8755 W. Flamingo Road, Las Vegas, NV 89147

Las Vegas Pharmacy
2600 W. Sahara Ave., Ste 120, Las Vegas, NV 89102

LienRx.com – Locations

Refill Pharmacy
8536 Del Web Blvd., Las Vegas, NV 89134

986 Pharmacy
241 N. Buffalo Drive, Ste 150, Las Vegas, NV 89145

Southwest Pharmacy
4550 E. Bonanza Road 3C, Las Vegas, NV 89110

OK’Care Pharmacy
4845 Rainbow Blvd., Ste 403, Las Vegas, 89103

City Pharmacy
1131 E. Tropicana Ave., Ste A-1, Las Vegas, NV 89119

Las Vegas Scripts Rx
2920 N. Green Valley Pkwy, Ste 814, Las Vegas, NV 89014

Southwest Specialty Pharmacy
8170 S. Eastern Ave., Ste 10, Las Vegas, NV 89123

DTS Pharmacy
2208 E. Charleston Blvd., Ste B, Las Vegas, NV 89104

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Supporting Children after Crisis and Loss – One Year Later

Thursday, September 27, 2018

As the first anniversary of the 1 October concert shooting in Las Vegas approaches, many children are still having reactions to the tragic events. The anniversary and media coverage may cause children to experience fear, anxiety and other feelings they felt at the time of the shooting, or remind them of the loss or injury of someone they knew or loved.

Strong emotional reactions can occur even in children who have not experienced significant difficulty over the last year. In addition, attention to one crisis often reminds children of other
difficulties in their lives—whether they be past events, ongoing challenges, or concerns about futures losses or crises.

Drawing on over 30 years’ experience in providing support in the aftermath of tragedy, David J Schonfeld, MD, the Director of the National Center for School Crisis and Bereavement (SchoolCrisisCenter.org), will offer practical advice and answer questions about what we all can do to offer support to children in times of crisis and loss, as well as how to prepare children for the one-year anniversary of 1 October.

Representatives from the Vegas Strong Resiliency Center, Clark County School District and Adam’s Place (A Grief Center for Children and Families) will be present to answer questions and provide information about local resources for families. This event is coordinated by the Nevada Chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). For more information or questions: info@schoolcrisiscenter.org.

David J Schonfeld, MD, FAAP – Speaker

Dr. David J Schonfeld is a developmental-behavioral pediatrician and director of the National Center for School Crisis and Bereavement (NCSCB). He has authored more than 100 scholarly articles, book chapters and books, and has given more than 1,000 presentations on the topics of crisis and loss relating to children. He has provided consultation and training on school crisis and childhood grief in the aftermath of numerous school and community crisis events and disasters within the United States and abroad, including providing advice to Clark County public schools and private schools in Las Vegas after the 2017 concert shooting.

Program Details

Morning Session

10:00a-12:00p
Clark County Government Center
Commission Chambers
500 South Grand Parkway
Las Vegas, NV 89155
Admission is complimentary.

Evening Session

5:30p-7:30p
New York Life
6325 South Rainbow Boulevard
Suite 400
Las Vegas, NV 89118

Download Event Flyer (PDF)

Supporting Organizations


Peyton’s Story

Peyton's Story

Peyton and her brother

My name is Peyton and I am 14 years old. My story is sad but not unique. My father died suddenly when I was 9 years old and my entire world was turned upside down. I went from being a happy, popular child excelling in school, music, and sports, to a withdrawn, deeply sad child who could no longer focus on school or playing. Instead, I spent all my energy on trying to not cry and on trying to fit in with kids that I now felt I had nothing in common with. My home life went from that of an average child to constant stress, lack of stability and what seemed to be and unending stream of tears. I lost my dad that dreadful day, but I also lost the mom that I had known all my life. She was destroyed by his death and struggled to handle her own grief and all the new responsibilities of now being solely responsible for 2 small kids. She tried her best, but in the early days following his death, she simply could not be the support system my brother and I needed to deal with our grief.

I tried to turn to my friends but they alienated me because they didn’t know how to handle what I was going through. I also tried to turn to my teachers, but they were not trained in how to deal with children who have lost a parent and were no help at all in my grief journey. My grades dropped and I no longer found joy in any aspect of my life. My brother, who was 5 and in his first year of school, was being bullied for not having a dad. He was so little and vulnerable and turned to me for help but I was only 9 and didn’t know what to do. I cannot adequately describe how much my world changed that dreadful day and how incredibly distraught and overwhelmed I was during those months following.

Peyton's Story

Peyton, Rob and Alex Barsel

My mother knew how difficult my dad’s death was on us and put my brother and me into counseling within the first week. We saw a child psychologist for 5 months but our work with him did not help us much. Fortunately, my mother found an organization called Adam’s Place that helped me realize that I was not the only child who has gone through a profound loss. The three of us started attending meetings 6 weeks after he died. We went there every other week for 2 years (my brother for 3). The healing that comes from being able to share your sorrows with your peers and knowing that you have the support of other kids who understand your pain is immense. I learned coping skills and felt “normal” again by going to Adam’s Place. Having the support of my peers at Adam’s Place helped me tremendously and gave me the courage to eventually rejoin life.

After benefiting so much from Adam’s Place, I knew that I had to give back to my community (the community of kids who were grieving) and 3 years ago, I went through the facilitator training to become their first Youth Volunteer Facilitator. I have since been working with the 5-8 year olds every other Tuesday.

-Peyton


Anna’s Story

"This picture was taken at her dance recital last year. She is an amazing dancer and I love this picture of us." - Anna

Hello, my name is Anna and I would like to share my experience with Adam’s Place. My daughter Grace lost her father due to tragic circumstances during the summer of 2016. His sudden death was a shock to his family and friends. But for my 6 year old daughter, his death has impacted her life on a daily basis.

My daughter’s school counselor referred me to Adam’s Place after her father’s death. Upon meeting the founder Kelly, I felt confident with allowing my daughter to attend the bi-weekly meetings for her age group. Grace immediately felt a bond with the other children who shared their stories of losing a loved one. She has learned to share and talk about the loss of her father in a way that is comforting and normal in a group setting.

"This is one my favorite photos of Grace and her father. He surprised us and showed up for her first dance recital and made her so happy" - Grace's Mommy

The group is led by trained volunteers who give the children support through games or activities that promote dealing with feelings. Grace looks forward to talking and playing games with the other children in her group every other Tuesday.

The first birthday, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Father or Mother’s Day, graduation, or dance recital after the loss of a parent is so hard for the child and surviving parent. I experienced all of these after the death of my daughter’s father, and Adam’s Place gave me support and the tools to handle the situations in a positive way for my daughter. Adam’s Place offers group meetings for the adults and that has been a life saver for me as a single working mom who has struggled with daily issues on my own. After the death, I felt anger, sadness, frustration, shock, and struggled with the mess her father left me to figure out and make right for our daughter. Adam’s Place gave me the support and resources to handle financial, legal, and emotional issues in a positive and effective way to benefit me and my daughter.

The gratitude I feel in my heart for Adam’s Place and the volunteers is endless and has changed the life of my daughter in a positive way. After a tragic situation, Adam’s Place has given my 7 year old daughter Grace a positive and happy place to learn how to heal from a great loss and just be happy child with a happy mommy. Please give Adam’s Place the opportunity to receive funding to continue the positive and generous work that is changing the lives of children. Thank you for your time and reading about my experience with Adam’s Place.

Sincerely,
Anna
01/23/17